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It amazes me how much insight you can get from children’s movies. This morning I was watching a movie with my 5 & 2 year old, half way through I started crying (releasing emotions) and my 5 year old asked why I was crying. I’d had a realization and every realization is a life changing experience. This morning’s message was to release the need to control.
As above so below from within to without. What this means is what you FEEL on the inside is what you get on the outside, the world around you. Talking the talk but not really FEELING or BELIEVING it inside will not give you the same result.
I had a client just recently who spends their time trying to control their partner & children. Her children range in age from 20 to 11 so as you can imagine have developed their own personalities and are fighting against being controlled by their parents. The only way to gain true inner peace is to let go. This doesn’t mean don’t take action, this means don’t be obsessed by the result. Know what you want, take guided steps to get there & let it go. Spending time & energy trying to change or control other people will never give you the result you desire. The only person you can change is you. By starting on you and focusing on the good in others and the things you like, love & appreciate about them your relationships will improve.
This doesn’t just relate to other people, it also relates to you & your life experiences. Once you truly release that need to control your life you will be filled with greater joy & greater results as you are no longer limited & causing yourself unnecessary stress.
So often I hear I just wish I knew the answer, the magic solution, the key or the secret. You are the secret to your life. You are the key & the magic solution. You are all the joy, bliss and love you could ever dream of. Once you can tap into your own inner peace, love & strength it will flow through in all areas of your life.
Remember we are all human, the first person in your life you need to love, protect, forgive & honor is yourself. Be true to you. Be the mother, father, guardian to you. Nurture yourself and do what you FEEL is right. This is not necessarily what you THINK is right. If you always follow what you think & not what you feel you’ll never get the results you truly desire.